Who's Life Are You Living?

Who's life are you living?

Recreate Yourself

The question you should ask yourself is: Whose life are you living? Are you living the life your parents chose for you? Are you conforming to societal expectations or trying to fulfill your husband’s ideal of a perfect wife? Or are you simply existing in a life that doesn’t truly reflect who you are?

Every day, we should reflect on these questions. What would happen if the real you were revealed to those who believe they know and love you? Why was the true you hidden in the first place?

What do you do when your life seems to be going well, but deep down, you feel it isn’t the life you should be living? What happens when you realize that, despite your hard work, the life you’ve built isn’t truly yours—it’s just what others expected of you? Would this realization lead you to a spiral of addictive behavior? Would you even notice it happening? And if you did, could you still make the changes needed if real solutions were presented to you?

Life is too short to live it as someone else. You have the power to master your behaviors and communication and to define your success.

Have the COURAGE!

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This speech serves as a rallying cry for action. We spend around eighty percent of our day at work, leaving only the rest to unwind at home. If we have a rough day at the office, it’s all too easy to carry that negativity home, and the same can happen in reverse. It’s crucial to cultivate healthy environments in the spaces that significantly impact our lives by putting our best foot forward and expecting the same in return.

The 5 Chairs method is a powerful framework that enables us to take charge of our own behaviors while also managing those of others. Being a good leader means actively contributing to the success and happiness of everyone, both at work and at home, in a thoughtful way. The 5 Chairs represent 5 Choices. Which ones will you make?

Louise Evans, a Behavioral Coach, Corporate Trainer, and author of ‘5 Chairs 5 Choices,’ leads her organization from Florence, Italy. She offers international leadership development, cross-cultural transitional coaching, and personal development programs for individuals and teams navigating global environments. Originally from England, she has lived and worked in Germany, France, and Italy for over 30 years.

Three core passions have always guided her life—people, travel, and the performing arts—allowing her to weave these elements into her daily work. Having traveled to seven countries and experienced culture shock on three occasions, Louise brings diverse perspectives to each moment, helping people connect across differences. She holds a strong belief in the potential for growth and transformation in everyone. What she treasures most is aiding individuals in boosting their self-awareness and understanding of others, empowering them to present their best selves in every situation.

Utilizing these Chairs when interacting with others can profoundly shift your perspective on life and those around you.